AOL email doesn't get activation email

I have been having problems posting for a while, so I tried switching me email from my AOL to my Gmail account, and I received an email and was able to post. The problem is, I don’t check my Gmail regularly, but I can’t post when I change my account to to my AOL, because I don’t get a confirmation email. It is not getting put int my spam folder, and I don’t know what to do. I am only able to post this because i have set my email to my Gmail account. By the way, my aol email is: (ignore the bars; i don’t want spam) t|r|b|a|w|a|@|a|o|l|.|c|o|m