1.For Cloth Modifier do I need the patch or is there a file some where.
2.How do I put in into blender????
3.What in the world does Source coding have to do with it?
4. Where can I get some decent Source Coding tuts???
Go there and find a test build for your OS that has cloth. You might have to follow some links from inside those threads to see what’s enabled in a particular build. If you’re on win theres an older build from lguillaume 2006/05/01 that has cloth.
You only need patches and code if you’re compiling your own build from CVS.