ha ha ha dreamsgate i understand women VERY WELL !!!
infact i know more about women than most of my female friends HA HA HA
(oh and i am not joking on this one)
within 3 weeks of talking to nearly any girl i will ahve them talking about everything from
how many kids they want
what age they want to be married
perfect guy
past sexual experiences
secrets they havn’t even told their best friends (perhaps rape, abuse, or honest feelings about things)
i will know all their past relationships, who, how long, what they did, etc…
i will know everything you need to know, favorite colour, food, sauce, topping, flower, car, style house etc…
i will know their sexual and emotional fantasys, i will know exactly what they want.
after talking to girls on such a personal level its easy to make more of it, either sexually, emotionally, or both. the hard thing is to not take advantage of people in the situation.
i have turned down about 4 chicks, and only every kissed one girl in my life, (through choice, not through lack of oppertunity)
you need confidence, morality (to not take advantage of someone that you don’t see a long term realtionship with is my major moral, even if i really want to) chivalry, understanding, empathy, humour, and HONESTY (the biggest of them all)
i garentee that you will find as many girls as you want this way, but the thing is to be able to become friends with them rather than hurt them, or be hurt by them (lol)
its a good start to understand the female cycle, menopause etc… show respect for women as women and understand things they may talk to you about. a shoulder to cry on it a great asset. an ear to talk to is great, and someone that can turn a bad situation into a happy one.
for example a girl i was talking to on the phone the other day was almost crying about various things that were going on, i talked to her for about 3 hours (well till she needed to go to bed LOL) but by the end of it she didn’t want to leave.
OK ENOUGH TALKING ABOUT ME!!!
LOL ok heres some advice
talk about meatballs, jelly, ugly trees, lightnig bolts, funny tv programs, things you have done that are silly, then ask her about things she has done, show an interest in what she is talking about (but an honest interst, e.g. if she likes sewing then say how you love wedding dresses (personal fantasy sorry LOL) ) convisations develop over time and as you understand more about a person you can become more and more engaged with them. Untill you know everything then you need to talk about your day.
talk about lovey dovey stuff, what their favorite evening would be like etc…
its really not that hard, but some people no matter how good you are at convistions can be talked too. i know so many people that will kill any convisation i have with them to a point where i will just give up.
you need to lay down the steps to begin a convistation and make it easy for them to join in, meaning OPEN questions, leading on a new topic in a answer you give to a question (yes/no are bad answers)
you need to NOT WORRY about what you say, its a very important thing to do. as when you start worrying you are not yourself when talking and it becomes awkward. so if you end up talking about rotten shoes then so be it.
Alltaken (i hope that helped some what)
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