i would like to recreate my lighting from a photo. The lens flair star with a white highlight in the middle is the key point I think, that would make it realistic. Here is my photo vs rendering:
In the compositor there’s a Glare node.If you set it to Streaks you get the “stars” effect.
Crank up the emission of your LEDs so they become bright, and play with the settings in the Glare node. E.g. the Threshold setting determines what brightness a pixel needs to have to get the lens flare effect.
If the width of the glare bothers you, as in, it’s trying to encompass “all” of the LED surface, you can try to use a portion of the LED surface and pass it on as an AOV. This AOV is then used in comp to mask what parts of the image it considered. I use it to mimic very narrow diffraction spikes for light sources that are technically bigger. Not sure it’s realistic, but I think it looks better.