getting friend message how to ?

i got a message show at top of forum page
but when i answered and save the negative answer on that message page

i still have this notification at the top

it takes a day or 2 before going away

how can you make it go away immediately or faster and not see this notification at top of the forum page whic is annoying more then anything else and useless?

thanks for any help

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