Hair in Eevee

I have a problem with my character and I could’t find a solution myself so maybe you can help me, I’m trying to set up a hair simulation for my character “The Marine” and it looks good but it doesn’t quite real,
I’m also having a problem trying to render the hairs without its emitter (i have unchecked the option for the emitter to render but it still does.) This is how i wanted it to look:

and this is how it looks in the render: Does anybody know another way to make mild facial hair or how to fix this?