How do you make photorealistic quilts, bedding, and fabric, for architectual visualization?
I use Marvelous Designer a lot.
Detailed clothing simulations are difficult on blenders (not completely impossible)
Alternatively, you can create a basic form in the blender and use sculling Cloth Brushes to express the detailed form.
For modeling cloth folds the same rules applies as to drawing cloth foldsā¦ like for example (random pickā¦ or first hit 
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