Particle Object Alpha Fade: How?

Apologies if this has been covered, but I could not find anything definitive. I am using an object as a particle and I want it to fade in as it appears, not just ‘pop’. However, I cannot figure out how.

I tried animating an alpha fade on the source object but it only seems to work on the first particle that appears.

Anyone know how to do this?
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