Slow to select

It seems like whenever I use armatures in a scene I have to wait like a minute or two to select some thing

its kinda like:
right click…wait 2 minutes…selected! =D

anyone else get this or know what I can do to speed it up?

This is probably due to your graphics card. Even if you do have a good one, selection will slow down with much complexity. Try separating your scene out into layers and see if that improves anything. Also make sure that things like particles and subsurf have low display values.

mmk I’ll try it, but its only one mesh and one armature =/