the shader i made is not reacting to certain colors of light. If you don’t mind could you have a look at it please
What do you mean by ‘not reacting to certain colors of light’?
It looks that the shader is reacting to all light colors as expected (at least for Pbr shadings).
Of course, Toon shaders and other non-Pbr shadings might require a different approach for specific effects; Specially because no one can really tell how a certain light color should affect a non-Pbr surface. 
any advice?
Please, tell us what the problem is, first.
All I can see, is what is expected.
Any thing else that you want to do, that falls far from what light and materials react in the physical world, needs to be addressed in other ways (compositor, layers, painting, etc).
I did include the file so you could look
Hi, As was already said the toon shader reacts that way to the darker and lighter colures. This tutorial gives some tricks with lighting toon shaders:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BXweyv6XIY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpWI2rU8iF0
Thank you. My toon shader is very different from most that I have encountered. Even if you could have a look and tell my what I could do better. By the way, am I being a pain? I feel like I am.This is my first toon, and self made project. So I am just trying to get help from people who have been doing this longer than me.
You are asking reasonable questions but you are not telling us what you really want to achieve with your lighting? do you want the lighting to not affect your toon shader? or are you trying to change the colour of your shader?
I am very sorry about being unclear. I am basically trying to create the ultimate npr shader, the holy grail you could say, a shader that reacts to light like pbr, looks good, and is really universal. It’s a big task I suppose. I am not sure if it is unreasonable to ask, but the thing i need most is another blender artist who is into this stuff, to test it and give me some feedback.
If you watch all the tutorials of the second link you will get real good ideas how to set the toon shader. But as was said by Secrop some looks you will only be able to achieve by painting.
i have found a fix. The only thing that i need is feedback. can you see the links?