Trying to change view orbit to RMB, pan to MMB

i want to make blender more like every other 3D program. i went to preferences keymap 3D view and set Pan View to middle mouse (works fine) and Rotate View to right mouse but it doesn’t work, i still get the context menu

so i went to Object Context Menu and set it to Ctrl right mouse press, and right mouse drag does now work in object mode but i still get default menu behavior in edit mode.

i can’t find the preferences for edit mode context menu anywhere, can anyone help?

thanks