What settings FLUID are needed for this effect?

I want to make an object from of the water from which drops drip, i maked domain an inflow but the water is jetting

You mean, you get too much water to quickly? Maybe change the inflow velocity?

I want the result as in the video, but I can’t find the settings. there is too much water

Ah, okay, I see. I believe you cannot reduce further the amount of water dripping out of a given mesh with inflow velocity already on zero. A little bit is always dripping. But what yo can do is reduce the size of the inflow. You are using the object which water should be dripping down from as the inflow, right? Set it to Fluid Obstacle instead and create a separate object for the inflow, e.g. small plane on top / inside / nearby.