Anchor Point follows "marker"?

Hey guys,
I am having a really annoying problem.
You know the little red circle, crosshair thing? (sorry cant remember technical term for it).
Wherever it goes, the anchor point of my object goes also.
Simply what is happening is: when i left click, the anchor point of whatever object I have selected changes to wherever i just clicked.

Any idea why/how i can fix it?

(if i didn’t explain it clear enough let me know and ill try again)

You probably have the 3d curser set as the pivot point. Change it in the 3d header to something more appropriate such as bounding box


awesome thank you!!