I’ve on top of my head Samsung Omnia 2 or HTC Touch Diamond 2 (sorry for the two’s, is not a joke), both should come near to your requests.
About the camera, I believe you won’t find any smartphone without.
Lol, take a look again at the features you just mentioned and think again… I suppose you just don’t Really know what phone to buy… Still, I suggest looking for the following 3 phones(and if you want 8gb, buy yourself a memory card!):
1-Sony Ericsson w995(has a 8gb card included)
2-Nokia N82(only has a 2gb memory card)
AND 3… Nokia E51 camera-free(still, has no jack, and you must buy a 8gb memory card)
If you want to search any more, go to www.gsmarena.com and look for one(although, I really don’t think there is any phone with those features…) .Good luck!!!