Connect Objects???

Hey Guys I was wondering how you can connect objects because i have read ctrl + j but that doesnt work for me

Below are two pictures of what im doing

  1. the object unjoined

Sorry if posted twice

  1. After ctrl +j


Please ALWAYS attach orlinkto your blend file. You aren’t showing or told us the actual useful info

you may have the origins diffrent, or need to apply all of your modifiers before the merge, other then that I would have to see the .blend

ok i didnt apply the modifyers so i did and it is fixed thanks guys