You can make a hole with Boolean modifer or with a so-called “Project Knife tool”. Both of these two methods works perfectly, depending on each situation and your own needs
How to make a hole using Boolean modifier:
How to make a hole using Project Knife tool:
Also some useful tricks:
How you did that just copying that circle wouldn’t work since circle and a hole - is a two different meshes and you cannot just copy that hole and move it somewhere in the other place.
thanks for the links, problem is, my hole is not a simple geometric shape, but i’m sure if i watch the videos enough times i’ll the concepts will click and help me resolve my issue.