EEVEE invisible Emisson mesh?

problem with light path is that the mesh is not seen but the light goes away too!
so not really good !

I need like an equivalent mesh light source but not seeing it
even using an IES light won’t work cause I cannot put it outside
it does not do the right light distribution in space around the LED

if you look to my render it is almost good 90 %
so still missing a more realist physical render !

but it is better then in cycles!

thanks
happy bl