Looks as if something is going wrong with the armatures in your FBX and the Blender importer. I am not an expert on FBX nor on armatures. But it looks as if there are already a few tickets on Blender side that mention some limitations:
And there is also some discussion ongoing in here on FBX and Blender im- and export. Although it is mostly for export, maybe there are some helping comments?
I did go through all of the links you mentioned, found a couple of addons but still the issue is not resolved. The addons work mostly for the export process. I am unable to get it imported in the first place.