For Modo user switching to Blender 2.8

Is there a way how to achieve Modo-like shading for inactive objects in viewport?
In Modo I have bunch of shading styles for active and inactive objects.
(In most cases it only need wireframe shading for inactive objects)
Also I can see that some mesh is instance.





Blender example. I can’t even see what mesh is instance…

Also how to disable backface selection?