ok i have these three bezier surfaces and i want to join them to make a 3d oblect where the edges of the surfaces are joined and form the faces of the object insted of them just being boring and flat…i have a picture uploaded so you all can see what i mean. I don’t know how to ask this question so i hope that this is understood. Thanks for any help.
http://www.geocities.com/speedrifterx/index.html?1012990922437
btw i want to join them to make a tube out of them basically. I hope that makes my question more clear.
Your picture is rather obscure, and question too…
Do you mean that you want a tube whose sections are your surfaces?
If yes you’re on the wrong path.
You must work with curves and then ‘skin’ them to make the tube.
Reading of http://vrotvrot.com/xoom/tutorials/Cave/Cave.html
higly recomended 
Stefano
P.S.
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