Is Blender 3 worth the pain?

Yes, LTS are regularly updated with bugfixes, when they see a bugfix in current master that can be backported to older LTS version they try to put it in.
LTS are mostly for studios that need to work with the same blender version for years because of the length of the project.
This can be a good option for you if you need to stick to a particular release.

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