Understood. 
And then the consequences hit and your miserable for the rest of your life.
Trust me its true. By playing it safe you prevent further depression and heartache than if you were rebellious.
Unless thats what you want.
Being alone with a girl is unacceptable simply cause you can get the urge or desire to do things that are not acceptable outside of marriage. I’m talking of one thing in particular.
And if you do do that,then there are two forms of consequences.
1: physical
2:emotional.
The physical is hard. Plus people get the wrong idea about you.
The emotional is even harder. You have a continuos lingering dread.
This is why playing safe is best. It prevents this.
And n00b’s right. God does see everything.
Afterall! He built and designed everything.
dude i got rejected and im just fine. in fact, i think i’ve become a better person overall from all of this. realize that even if you fail miserably your life isnt over. you are blowing the negative consequences WAY out of proportion. besides, don’t worry about your desires. if an obnoxious secular teenager like me can control himself, so should you. honestly, there is nothing wrong with a relationship. here, in NYC, if you DON’T hang out with the opposite sex, that is considered unnatural.
TWS, how old are you anyway?
I think he is 17, yet he appears to have the clearest mind out of anyone on this thread… (Not to be rude to anyone, however).
I am 17.
I think of the consequences.
On top of the fact I adopt and take heed to what my parents taught me.
Oh and max, I do “hang out” with girls.
I have a couple of friends that are girls.
HECK!! Almost everyone in my family is a girl.
I get usually get along with them easier than boys.
And I’m not blowing the consequences out of proportion.
I just didn’t explain them well (I have trouble doing that).
So there it is.
And rejection I’m not too worried about.
It happens.
Unfortunately but it does.
So I’m prepared for that.
I disagree on your disagreement.
If you never marry anyone it never was premartial intercourse.
Bwahahaha.
And people with the need to bring up religion believes in non religious forums should be restricted RO to the internet in my humble opinion.
17?
Suprising.
I thought you are a 13year old feeling a crush for the first time.
God sees everything…
Keep it secular, or I will start a flamewar.
I will respect your opinion, even if I disagree. I am sorry for posting on religion on a non religious forum.
I most definitely do not want a flame war… (Though I can exchange blows with the best of them).
come on, freemind, show some restraint…trust me i was very tempted to make a wise-crack comment there, but this thread isnt about that. and there are few things i like more than a good flame war.
If you want a flame war, create a free forum on www.freeforums.org, and I will join in. But lets not get any of us banned from this site.
And your proof arexma?
I’m certain my parents didnt do that.
I’m going to say this on rules:
They did a study on toddlers.
They left the fence on the playground up.
The toddlers played in the playground. Carefree.
Once they took the fence down though to give them freedom to go where they want,
The toddlers stayed huddles in the center.
They never moved.
They never went away from the area.
The fences are rules.
You can have as much fun as you want as long as you follow them.
The minute you disobey them, you’re at risk for trouble.
I’d know cause I’ve disobeyed many, and I’m bound to disobey more.
However, I’m going to make sure I don’t disobey them in this area. The consequences are devastating.
I’ve taken MUCH thought on them.
Besides! A 132 will kill me:
So!
Next Sunday! Anything I can do to strike a conversation you’d like to share?
Without doing something stupid? :o
Nope! I’m 17.
But I am feeling a crush for the first time.
Generally speaking.
God sees everything… Keep it secular, or I will start a flamewar.
No flame wars, no talk of religion or contrary beliefs. Not everyone believes in god. Not everyone believes in evolution, the big bang, etc. and lets just agknoledge that and not speak of the matter because it will simply turn into a pointless argument.
Yes.
And this thread is for somethin else.
NOOODDLLLLLLLEEESSSSSS!!!
anyways. Tomorrow is youth group. Lord willing she’ll be there.
And hopefully I can strike a conversation up.
Would you like me to pray for it? 
Would you like me to pray for that too?